Few Close Friends

Most of people when they have to take name of friends who they have talk with and have good relation then they have hardly remembered the name of few friends. Although s/he had met with lots of school & college friends, friends met during journey, many childhood friends, etc. but they can't take their name as they are not close enough that s/he can trust them.
Close friends are those friends who would be in your side when you need them.


Why people felt lonely having all these no. of friends?

Some feels lonely or become alone in the circle of many friends as they could not found individual that matches them. It's happen to those who can't establish good relationship with other people either because they couldn't accept others activities or they can't bring other close enough to make them accept her/his doing.

These kinds of people less involved in social sites or say less open to the public but loves talking with few people privately. They behaves them as they are their most trustful friends. They like to share their feeling and opinions to them.

I am also one of these kind.

So, through my experiences also I found that these kinds of people inspired from them to do anything good. These silent looking people wants to remain more in touch with them. They feel uneasy if they couldn't talk with close friends for little longer.

Although their partners don't response they won't stop sending message or keep trying to remain in touch.

So, I would like to suggest to those who ignore the closeness of somebody with few close ones are spoiling the trust over themselves done by them.

While you are ignoring someone don't forget that what if those to whom you are pretending to close stop responding you?

Everybody should respect everybody filling and opinion.

Here, I am trying to say is that we should give more priority while respecting to those who respect you the most and trust a lot then other many friends. If anyone response to them by even a single words or greeting their face for whole day remain bright and fill with joy. They don't need larger event to happen to get happy they feel happy in a small achievement.

They just try to bring smile in the face of people in their contact although he couldn't do more, always thinks about their success and tries to support either by action or by emotional support.

Here, it's not better to mention name of some friends who don't reply to message when they gone online but simply answered lately they were busy when asked repeatedly.

Question yourself, Can't you give sometime to those who trust and loves you more from their inner heart? It's OK, there mightn't have time always. Have you ever think about them when spending time on leisure?

"They" is used instead of "I" here in this post as not only me is one facing this problem. 
I would be sad if anyone ignores like that to me.

I won't stop asking or trying you contact every next times hoping I would get response this time.
Hope nobody (at least me) would face this problem afterwards.

It's all because I have a close friend.

Don't know I am a close friend for her/him.



Hi everyone, I am Amrit Devkota. Studying B.Sc. Forestry at IOF, Pokhara Campus. Complete +2 from SOS Hermann Gmeiner Higher Secondary School. I am interested in writing and helping other people through writing. I love natural monuments. Promise to conserve them. I believe in Truth and Hard Working. Simple Living High Thinking.

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